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Dating and racism?

  Author:  17876  Category:(Discussion) Created:(2/26/2001 9:20:00 PM)
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I just wanted someones opinion on an issue that has been dabated in my household (and many of my friends households) lately.

first of all i sincerely apologize if i offend anyone here. I just want to let you know that i am not against anyone from any other culture here and neither are my parents, ther are just uncomfortable with anything they dont understand.

What do you think about inter-racial dating (i am not sure if that is correct terminology....i am thinking about when two people from different races - say a caucasion person and an african person - dated). See my parents have this problem with me dating anyone but white boys (sorry..i dont know how to spell caucasion). I might start going out with this guy i know and he is east indian. I dont see him as a 'brown' person i just see him as the cute sweet adorible guy that he is but my parents fail to see that. They dont know about my situation with this guy, but i know how they will react because of a past exparience (and a present one too) that my sister is in. NOw i dont see any big deal with interracial dating! People are people! You most likely wouldnt care less if a black cat and a white cat had kittend would you? What difference does it make with people then! Colour is skin deep! the reason my parents make such a big deal is because they think our cultures might clash and it might put me or him in an akward situation or that i might be exposed to somehting hurtful to me, but unknowingly to him. I can see her point, but if two people are in such a relationship then they should be able to hsare and work past the diferences right? Am i crazy here or what! Am i the only one who feels this way?

I would really love it if someone would tell me what they think about this.

Thanks! Starbright

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Date: 2/26/2001 9:35:00 PM  From Authorid: 12103    it dont matter what color a person is to me...even if
they are dating..it shouldnt matter...does their
color effect the way they act??? i think its extremely rude
for people to be against a different race....its sooo wrong!
  
Date: 2/26/2001 9:56:00 PM    I date an Asian girl who is from the Philippines. I am a white guy. I don't find no big deal about interracial dating. I think a person is a person. And that you should like a person for the way they are and not their skin color. And I think that your parents should accept that guy because sometimes if you really love or like someone you are going to be with someone no matter what anyone says or does so just be true to yourself and don't let anyone talk you out of it.
Date: 2/26/2001 10:00:00 PM  From Authorid: 28770     I date an Asian girl who is from the Philippines. I am a white guy. I don't find no big deal about interracial dating. I think a person is a person. And that you should like a person for the way they are and not their skin color. And I think that your parents should accept that guy because sometimes if you really love or like someone you are going to be with someone no matter what anyone says or does so just be true to yourself and don't let anyone talk you out of it.
Date: 2/26/2001 10:32:00 PM  From Authorid: 3263    Love is love....and people are people. You can't help who you love. And, I for one, see NOTHING wrong with interracial dating (I am white, my sweetie is black) and it's really sad, the amount of B.S. that people will give you because of it. *shrugs it off* Doesn't get to me, though! :) Oh, and good luck with your parents! Maybe they will open up to new ideas, if they see how much it means to you. I know my dad did!  
Date: 2/26/2001 10:57:00 PM  From Authorid: 25242    it's not the 60's where it was legal to be ignorant. GO 4 IT! Your parents already lived their lives.
Date: 2/27/2001 3:05:00 AM  From Authorid: 17014    This is a tough issue to confront-- I am not racist, I've had many other-colored friends and friends who are couples (black with white and vise-versa), I see no problem with it. But on the other hand I personally wouldn't date anyone to far off my own track, if that makes any sense...  
Date: 2/27/2001 7:41:00 AM  From Authorid: 16128    I am with Kelsey77 on this one, I have family that married a different race, and had children, and I love those kids just the same, I can tell you that those kids have a hard time b/c they are mix. I have friends who date ohter races, and I am ok with that, to me it is their business, I myself wouldn't, but that is just me. I have had friends of different races etc. I just chose not to get involved. I don't look down on people that do, and you are right their color doesn't make them who they are, but the sad thing is in this world alot of people think that it is wrong to date out of race. It is sad, but true. Good Post. I wish you the best of luck, and if you love this guy, then I say go for it, and make your parents understand that he is what makes you happy, not his color, but him his self. I know from experience with my family, they will learn to love him just the same, and they won't even think of him as a different race. ((HUGZ))  
Date: 2/27/2001 8:00:00 AM    child please this is the year 2001 tell your parents to get over it and worry more about kids who are starving in diverse places people dying every hour of cancer aids high blood pressure. I dont know why white people have such a hard problem with this issue 9 out of 10 whites have a problem with this 1 out of 100 blacks have a problem with this and the tripped out part is that at least the indian boy knows where he came from at least blacks know where we came from at least jews know where they came from where exactly did white people come from ? No Offense.
God created all people red roses grow in the field with lilies why can't whites and blacks grow together. ask your parents who are they to judge if they knew how God intended for it to be they would not fix thier mouth to tell you who to choose to make you happy which is what they should be more concerned about, YOUR HAPPINESS
Date: 2/27/2001 8:13:00 AM  From Authorid: 27921    Does love have a color? I think not. RainStorm
Date: 2/28/2001 2:20:00 AM  From Authorid: 17014    P>S> Starbright- Other-colored also refers to Indian, Mexican, Spanish, Czech---etc. Catch what I meant?  
Date: 2/28/2001 4:41:00 AM  From Authorid: 9605    No, you have the right idea and your parents have to realize that it's your life when it comes to your preference in men when it comes to love.  
Date: 4/14/2001 4:05:00 PM    Well I am an african american I am mixed with white, indian. If anyone saw me they would think that I am just black female who is 19. My boyfriend is white and my dad does not like the fact that I date white guys. I tell my dad to get over it because he is not going out with him and he is not going to kiss him. I know that my dad does not like it. He told my little brother that he better not come home with a white girl because white people stink and they can not do anything for him but mess up his life. I think that my dad is really messed up because I found out that my dad's dad is white and indian. When I told him about it he said do not tell anyone. With the dating thing I think that if someone likes or loves anyone to go with thier heart. Not what others say because if you do what others say that means that people have control of your life.

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