Date: 2/26/2001 9:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 16916
Hi...I think that whatever makes her happy is what is good...if she wants to be with him so be it. Dont let it ruin your friendship with her. I have dated older guys and I see where your friend is coming from. I cant stand dating anyone that is younger than me because they are so IMMATURE! No offense to anyone. Thats my opinion hope i helped
<3  |
Date: 2/27/2001 12:25:00 AM
From Authorid: 28737
I am not totaly clear of the laws, but I think there is something about statitory (sp?) rape. IF it is going to be
anything more than what is normal, it may be against the law. I am against it....just my opinion.
~shadow child~ |
Date: 2/27/2001 2:59:00 AM
From Authorid: 17014
Age is just a number.... who cares what other ppl think? I don't. My boyfriend is 26 and I'm 23, I don't think there is any problem with the age, it's how they connect on the emotional and mental level ya know? :)  |
Date: 2/27/2001 4:38:00 AM
From Authorid: 27360
Yeah but at 19 you dont go out with a child. tell your friend that she has the rest of her life to be in love. she doesnt need to hook up with an older guy who are only after one thing. there are plenty of things to keep her occupied with her time instead of having an older boyfriend. as far as love at first site. as far as clicking with this person just for your info it wont be the last time that happens i myself have clicked with a several people.  |
Date: 2/27/2001 5:20:00 AM
From Authorid: 27414
I have a step-daughter that was in the same situation. Needed to be with older men (boys?). Now she has 2 kids. Gave the first one up for adoption and my wife and I have custody of the second. She is in prison due largely in fact that she WAS dependant on older men and USED by them for whatever reason. Tell your friend that being in love is fine as long as that's ALL the guy has on his mind. The age difference doesn't matter but only if the age is mature. Tell her to be really careful about what she will do.  |
Date: 2/27/2001 8:13:00 AM
From Authorid: 21249
My daughter didn't date until she was 18 yrs old. and she had no problem with it at all,at fourteen I would never have allowed it, she is just beginning her teen yrs, there are so many other interest's she could be into, I know young girl's get crushe's but a crush and going out with someone 19 yrs, old is totally different, maybe you can talk to her and see how it goes, if she continue's on this road there could be trouble up ahead, You sound pretty together and good for you just keep on asking for direction when you need it Love and you'll be OK Take Care and God Bless love jollee  |
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Date: 2/27/2001 8:17:00 AM
From Authorid: 26139
I have nothing against age difference. As long as both sets of parents find nothing wrong with it, it should be OK. Otherwise they're going to have a little "jailbait" scandal on their hands!! mom-to-be |
Date: 2/27/2001 10:21:00 AM
From Authorid: 1055
I believe that she should go with her instincts, but remember that she is only 14 years old. She has her entire life ahead of her. In all the time that she has left I think that now is not the time to find a life-long boyfriend. If, however, after time has past and both still feel the same way I say go for it. No one looks strangley at two married people that are 5 years apart. I have aunts and uncles that are 10 years apart in age, and yet they are not looked down upon. All I can tell you is that all things worthwhile take time. -Universal Traveler-  |
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