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WHO IS CONSIDERED TO BE UGLY? ARE THERE UGLY PEOPLE OUT THERE ?

  Author: 18364  Category:(Debate) Created:(3/2/2001 9:00:00 PM)
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I have been thinking... What is it that makes one ugly? Face? Body? Mind? Soul? What? Is the definiton of the ugly in their appearances? I had many people telling me that I am ugly. Somehow, when I look myself in the mirror, I think I am not. I consider myself to be an average looking person. And then I get depressed because people do not see me the way I see myself. And certainly people do not consider soul to be the beauty itelf, because the guy I am in love with said that my soul is beautiful but not my appearances. It hurt me, but what could I say to him? I do not know.. I would like to hear the definiton of ugliness. Maybe I am ugly, but somehow I believe ugly does not exist. Am I wrong?

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Date: 3/2/2001 9:02:00 PM  From Authorid: 7574    I think there is only ugliness on the inside...you can be completely gorgeous, on the outside, but the inside if what people like the most, unless they are too shallow too see that...In God's eyes, we are all beautiful..  
Date: 3/2/2001 9:03:00 PM  From Authorid: 20750    I am ugly!!! LOL  
Date: 3/2/2001 9:04:00 PM  From Authorid: 3538    Amers is so right on in her comment.I completely agree with her.  
Date: 3/2/2001 9:04:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 18364    You are right. Beuaty passes out, but the souls stays forever. I wish someone would see me for who I am.
Date: 3/2/2001 9:05:00 PM  From Authorid: 11348    I think ugly does exist, but not in appearance. I think you make your own ugliness in your actions and how you treat people around you and yourself. Ugliness does not exist in appearance, and anyone who may not like a person's appearance is just trusting their opinion. I think everyone 'looks' good in their own way, and I don't really understand how anyone can be judged or called ugly because of the way they look. But this is my opinion.   
Date: 3/2/2001 9:05:00 PM  From Authorid: 27706    Ugly only exsists in your mind. To your bf, I would say "bye" If he don't like the way you look, that is his prob. If you think you are beautiful, that is all that matters. I think I am an ugly person, but everyone else thinks otherwise. I don't think that I am that attractive physically, spirtually, nor mentally. I know I have problems, but I have learned to control and handle them. So I am working on being more attractive. It isn't just about how you look. I have met very beautiful people who are ugly. The people who are "hot" tend to be very ugly inside. Stay true to your heart. -J.D.  
Date: 3/2/2001 9:08:00 PM  From Authorid: 7574    Author, you need to except yourself for who you are...you aren't a whole of something...you can be different..just because you don't have the looks, doesn't mean you don't have a terrific personality, a great sense of humor, or you're creative...You have a strength, you just have to work to find it, and do your best to build by using that strength to your advantage...  
Date: 3/2/2001 9:19:00 PM  From Authorid: 8329    I do believe there is an "ugly" but I don't believe that its found on the outside of a person, I think its found within a person, reminds me of a famous quote "its whats inside that counts" which holds a lot of truth to it, the only thing that could ever make a person seem ugly to me is their attitude, personality, and their actions...sometimes a persons actions can make them ugly , I don't think ANYONES soul could be considered ugly for the fact that I believe everyone has a beautiful soul with great potential but its their attitude, decisions, personality, and actions that keep their soul from showing its beauty there ya have it, thats my 2 cents on the subject LOL and another thing don't ever let anyone tell you your ugly, and most important if they do don't believe them...trust me I may not know what your appearance looks like but you can not be titled ugly by appearance only as long as YOU like the way YOU are then thats all that matters, never change for someone else, everything you do should be for YOU (there are some exceptions to that, like if your only being kind or generous to someone thats a different story) just keep that in mind if anyone ever tries to tell you different.  
Date: 3/2/2001 9:29:00 PM  From Authorid: 24732    Something that doesn't please your eyes, you have your own preference of ugly. Like if there is a car with a color you don't like it is ugly to you. Everyone has things they like in appearance and dislike to, the things that you dislike are ugly. (<>..<>Alien  
Date: 3/2/2001 9:33:00 PM  From Authorid: 25390    I think there is an ugly, but that's on the inside. You are only as ugly as you make yourself to be love =Odd=  
Date: 3/2/2001 9:40:00 PM  From Authorid: 26303    Ugly does exist, the people who told you that you are ugly, seem like ugly people to me. How dare they, *steam coming from ears*, who do they think they are. Ugliness comes from within, in my opinion. Beauty is only skin deep comes to mind. Yes, appearances can be unattractive, but they are just that, appearances. I'm still in shock here, I just can't believe people can be so heartless.*gets herself together* Don't pay any attention to these people. If anyone ever says that to you again, try this "Oh really, well thanks for hurting my feelings, that must make you feel truly beautiful", turn and walk away from them. Head held high. ~Aussie Girl  
Date: 3/2/2001 9:44:00 PM  From Authorid: 17852    U r wrong Ugly in my opinion is by ur facial looks and ur body not ur mind or soul. Say for example I am with u in a mall r people goin to see ur mind no they will see ur face and body that is what is important
Date: 3/2/2001 10:05:00 PM  From Authorid: 22621    Ugly is physical appearance other words are used to describe mind and soul ugly is not one of them.
Date: 3/2/2001 10:26:00 PM  From Authorid: 15621    It is in the personality of someone.....everyone is beautiful....whats inside ,your personality,your mind....that is where beauty is  
Date: 3/2/2001 10:31:00 PM  From Authorid: 17516    For some reason the human mind perceives symmetry of features as beautiful. The more symetrical, the more beautiful it seems. But those are just appearances. It has been my experience that after I get to know a person my perception of their "beauty" changes with my perception of their inner beauty. I have known some that were model beautiful and still ugly to my sight. A person that couldn't get past outer appearance to see the inner beauty of another is someone I would perceive as ugly.  
Date: 3/2/2001 10:55:00 PM  From Authorid: 17248    The most beautiful people may appear ugly simply because they are not a good person. I believe looks are not ugly just personality  
Date: 3/2/2001 11:00:00 PM  From Authorid: 8374    what makes a person ugly is how disgusting their personality is...if they're rude, stubborn, spoiled, stuff like that..to me that makes them ugly...but i do know that to others people think that zits and greasy icky hair and coke bottle glasses makes somebody ugly but it doesn't...who cares about what is on the outside..it is what is on the outside that i and a lot of others care about...if they are loving and caring then they are very beautiful but if they are stupid and selfish then they are nasty and ugly  
Date: 3/3/2001 6:05:00 AM  From Authorid: 24924    Yeah, a real good example, is this guy who has been hounding me to go out with him. I kid you not, this guy is drop-dead GORGEOUS, a real "Chippendale" ON THE OUTSIDE, but he is so egotistical, shallow, and very selfish. I wouldn't go out with him if he were the last man on this planet! He keeps calling, thinking I'll change my mind. *insert maniacal laughter** I know he doesn't have a clue as to why he has never been married and he is 49 yrs old. *wink*  
Date: 3/3/2001 6:55:00 AM  From Authorid: 16612    Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Some ppl think Brittney Spears is pretty, but I find Britteny Spears to be ugly.It's up to each person's preference.There's someone out thee for everybody.-TessekTheQuarren  
Date: 3/3/2001 7:49:00 AM  From Authorid: 28228    There is no "ugly" on the outside
only "beauty"...Remember we are all made in God's image and His image of each of us is different and beautiful. What could you say to the guy you are in love with? How about "Good bye?" Hugs to you.
Date: 3/3/2001 8:05:00 AM  From Authorid: 160    You are asking for the answer to a very candid question and I am going to give you a candid answer, there are physically ugly people. I once read that Dezel Washington was so good looking because his face is the same exact on both sides. Make sence? In other words, some people's faces are not normally symetrical. Another thing that adds to being attractive and many people will agree is size, many men like tiny women. I also read that when a man is looking for a mate he is most likely (whether or not he realizes it) Looking for a woman that can bear his children and wished to find someone that can pass on his genes. This is the researchers opinions, not mine! Movie stars normally are people that can maintain their looks because they have the money and drive to do so. Hiring a fitness trainer or even building a gym in their homes in all within the realms of possibility when you have money. Finally people that take care of themselves as they age is important because you cant stop what it does to you outwardly but you can prolong it. I have known physically ugly people but they have not concentrated on the outside but on the inside where it really counts!  
Date: 3/3/2001 8:37:00 AM  From Authorid: 17340    Despite what many others have said, there is such thing as physical beauty, as well as spiritual beauty,
that fact is undeniable. The sad truth is that many people do judge others on phsyical
appearance, But, what is truely important is how you feel about yourself. If you are comfortable in your
own skin, it really doesn't matter what others say,
because in your heart you know your worth.
  
Date: 3/3/2001 9:25:00 AM  From Authorid: 4887    I think beauty is in the inside... there are ppl that are drop dead gorgeous, but are very mean on the inside, and ppl that are not that good looking, but extremly nice and sweet, and there's also very pretty and very nice and ugly and very mean.... so i guess it goes both ways... my opinion  
Date: 3/3/2001 11:58:00 AM  From Authorid: 19691    Every thingthat can be seen in a mirror can be ugly. Soul and mind can not be ugly any more. Only weak people actually look at the soul and mind. Mordred
Date: 3/3/2001 12:34:00 PM  From Authorid: 19772    Beauty Fades, personality doesn't. I've seen alot of really "beautiful people" who's personalities were very ugly. I wouldn't trade places with them for a minute. Because I know in several years their looks will fade and all they'll have left to go on is their crumby personalities. The best thing you can do be happy with who you are and accept yourself. Self Confidence goes along ways in helping you to become beautiful to others. And as for the boyfriend, how dare he say your not beautiful physically?? Why is he even with you if he doesn't think your attractive. Gain some self confidence and tell him to try and find someone more beautiful than you. Best of Luck to you. ---Jynx---  
Date: 3/3/2001 1:24:00 PM  From Authorid: 20873    I met this girl a couple of years ago anyway she married intot he hubby's family and she was beautiful she was absolutely gorgeous but...she was hateful and mean and said terrible things to me and the entire family to me she was an ugly person after that. Thats what I call and ugly person. they stayed married only about 2 yrs he dumped her because of that reason. lol, DINA  
Date: 3/3/2001 5:32:00 PM  From Authorid: 28962    I have to agree with some of the comments posted on here...We live in a society where it does matter what one looks like on the outside...Some ppl are lucky enough or unlucky depending on how one looks at it ..to be born with great looks and some of these ppl even have personalities to match it..However there are ppl that have the great looks but are so ugly inside that only ppl that put looks first and not the inside are what keeps these ppl from living their lives alone...I suppose there is some truth to beauty is in the eye of the beholder...While one person may find you attractive there is always someone out there to let you know your not...whether it be by your looks or your attitude..I would have to disagree with the comments thrown around about the inside of a person is the only thing that can be ugly...There are some ppl in this world that tip the scales when it comes to looking downright ugly...Some ppl even like to say there is no such thing as an ugly baby...I don't say this to be mean in any way...I have a child and I love all children no matter what they look like, but there is even such thing as an ugly baby...We don't choose how we look...we are born the way we are bc of genes...There are such things as ppl coming into the world as ugly ducklings and turning into swans..There are many things that can be done to improve ones looks ...whether its to get rid of acne...lose weight..wear contacts...dye your hair..plastic surgery...anyways I'm sure you get the point...None of this really matters if you can truely stand up and be proud of who you are and what you look like....deLISHAs
Date: 3/3/2001 8:22:00 PM  From Authorid: 6915    i have met all type of ugly. ugly on the outside, ugly on the inside. ugly is disrespect for ones self and everything around them. if your ugly on the inside your gonna be ugly on the outside to people  
Date: 3/4/2001 5:00:00 AM  From Authorid: 9876    I think that ugliness does exist but not by how you look its by the way you act....Laura
Date: 3/4/2001 1:47:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 18364    So basically you all think the beauty is inside of the person. Ok, I am a good person, and I say that because I know. I always try not to hurt anyone. I am very sensitive person, and I enjoy beautiful things such as art, nature, long walks, etc. I am a good friend too, because I know how to keep stuff to myself which people tell me, and I would always help a friend if he/she is the true one. Interesting how most of you define beauty. I wonder, why are not the people I meet in reality are not like you guys who I know only on this site. God bless you all, and thank you for replies.
Date: 3/4/2001 1:57:00 PM  From Authorid: 11097    Ulgy, only comes from what is inside,whether your a good person or not, can decide ugly. I think once someone is beautiful on the inside they are as well on the outside, same goes for ugly. JMO Love-  
Date: 12/29/2002 5:54:00 PM  From Authorid: 26761    I would punch that guy and break his neck!  
Date: 8/1/2006 8:34:00 PM  From Authorid: 7574    Gosh, I was so stupid. Couldn't type at all.  

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